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Graham Charles Odey


1950 - 2026
Service Details

Tuesday, March 31st 2026 - 14:00

Funeral location: Bournemouth Crematorium, Bournemouth Crematorium, Strouden Avenue, Bournemouth, Dorset, BH8 9HX

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Branch: AE Jolliffe & Son Funeral Directors
Ferndown

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Messages of condolence

  1. Graham no words can express how much you are going to be missed. Always in my heart ❤️

    Diane
  2. Graham no words can express how much you are going to be missed. Always in my heart ❤️ xx

    Diane
  3. I’m so very sad to hear of Grahams passing, I knew you for nearly my whole life, I love you and will always think of you

    Lorna Cordon
  4. I did’nt know you for very long but the time we had was great you were a true friend and a great mate i will miss our coffee chats at the bike cafe sleep tight Graham .

    Doug masters
  5. First time I met Graham he came to my rescue and towed my broken down car home.
    He told me he was a carpet cleaner. And he kept the joke going every time I was with him.
    I am so grateful to have spent many hours with Graham, he in many ways was a father figure to me.
    He was so generous and kind. Always available and happy to assist anyone at the drop of a hat. I have already greatly missed him and I will continue to miss him for a very long time. He will always have a special place in my heart. My deepest condolences to his family. He will greatly be missed.

    Danny Clements
  6. Graham, I only knew you a short time but in that period got to know what a lovely
    caring person you were.
    The only regret I have is not having met you earlier as for sure you would have been close friends.RIP

    Bryan
  7. Dad I miss you more than I can even begin to explain
    I’d choose you to be my dad again in every life time
    I love you more than you’ll ever know xxxxx

    May
  8. Graham you were one of the world’s loveliest people, beautiful on the inside and out! We are so proud to call you our best friend, we will always cherish the memories, love and miss you now and forever, sleep peacefully your journeys over xxxx

    Karen and Gerry xxxx
  9. I got the coffee on the last ride, you said you would get them next time.
    I will have to wait till I get to heaven.
    RIP Graham xxx

    John Goss
  10. Graham, you are the good husband and fantastic father.Forever will you live on in my heart and mind.Forever will you live in my thoughts and never die.i love you xxx

    Goy
  11. I shall never again have a friend that comes even close to being the friend that you have been never forgotten 💔 mate

    Ian Xxx
  12. Sending my condolences to the family on hearing of Graham’s passing. He was one of nature’s true gentlemen and it was a privilege to have known him.

    Ian Butterfield
  13. Graham what can I say a true gent always had a smile on your face, always willing to help out you will be missed for sure. RIP mate Chris (gas) mech

    Chris
  14. Grandad was my best friend
    He was always the best grandad in the world and I miss him a lot
    He was the best
    I know he will always be with us in ours hearts and I always look up to the stars at night so I can say goodnight to him 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 xxxxxxx

    Kai
  15. I don’t really know what to say. Never had a dad but you were definitely the closest thing to it. I’ll keep May and Kai safe. Love you dad. Xx

    Martin
  16. Rip Graham I knew you through Tony such a lovely man xxxxxxxxxxx sending love and strength to his family xxxxxxxxxx

    Julie Carpenter
  17. Rest in peace Graham- the world is a little less bright without you in it . Thank you for the laughter and memories .

    Love Rob and Chris Greenwood
  18. Graham(Dad), I feel so fortunate to have known you. You treated me as one of your own and for that I’ll always be grateful for. I’ll never forget the day you told me, “Dan, you don’t need a Dad, you’ve got me!” And that pretty much sums up the man you were. Absolutely incredible! Thank you for everything. I’ll forever cherish our memories. You’d be so proud of May, she’s definitely got your strength! I’ll always be that sister for May and Kai’s auntie, I’ve got their backs, I promise. See you on the other side. Love you Graham(Dad) xxxx

    Dan(Danielle)💛
  19. Graham you will missed be so much my lovely
    Ian and I are so proud to call you a fabulous friend and confident
    And a fantastic person you were to Tom
    You will be missed so much
    Love and know what you’ll say love you more
    But we love you most 🥰🥰

    Julie
  20. One of my oldest friends

    Always there if needed
    Missed

    Gordon
  21. Graham:
    Sorry for the loss of such a lovely kind and a great family man who was always there to help everyone.
    Happy I met him and new him.
    Love from Pauline ,Mike & little Rhys ❤️

    Pauline , Mike & Rhys Gauden .
  22. Dearest Graham, a true friend for many years. One of the loveliest, sweetest, caring people we were blessed to know. Always there when we needed him. Nothing was too much trouble, no distance too far.
    Always willing to give his time to others.
    Graham we miss your cheerfulness and your ready smile. You were ‘The salt of the earth’. You will live on in our memories, in our thoughts and in our hearts. Wearing the colour of sunshine will always remind us of you. Rest in Peace Graham. ❤️
    Our sincere condolences to your family

    Alan & Brenda
  23. I knew graham for a long time through belle & yuari and you became a very good friendyou used to do my car and used to spend hoursjust chatting about anything and everything graham you were one of the best mate and you will be sorely missed rest in peace mate till we meet again

    Ian & sharon ( shazer)
  24. I knew graham for a long time through belle & yuari and you became a very good friendyou used to do my car and used to spend hoursjust chatting about anything and everything graham you were one of the best mate and you will be sorely missed rest in peace mate till we meet again

    Ian & sharon ( shazer)
  25. I was so deeply saddened to hear about Graham’s passing. I have so many good memories of him over the years. He always treated me like we were part of his own. I’ll always be grateful for how he helped us and how warmly he welcomed me whenever I came around. He truly made us feel like family, and that meant more than words can say. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time. Graham was a wonderful man, and he will be deeply missed by everyone 🕊️

    Anan Deehom
  26. Graham, you were such a big part of my childhood. So many of my favourite childhood memories feature you and Yuwaree. I’ll always cherish bike nights on the Quay and all the time I spent at your house after school and in the holidays. Thank you for being the incredible man that you were. You will be so missed

    Leah
  27. Dearest dearest Graham so sad to hear of your leaving us. You will live on my memory as one of the sweetest, kindest, most loyal of friends and I will miss you dearly Sweetheart. Sleep well my friend and I’ll catch up with you again when I cross the finish line too. 💛💛💛

    Reg
  28. Dear Graham, you were a truly amazing man and a father figure to many, including myself. I feel fortunate to have known you and be part of your life. You will be sorely missed. Rest in peace.

    JOCELYN
  29. Love you Pa, no long elaborate message, ai just miss u xx

    Son
  30. Graham, you were always someone that could be counted on. You’ll be missed by me and so many others.

    Tristan
  31. Remembering a very dear cousin. Will be deeply missed

    Brian Campbell
  32. Gray, you were one of the kindest people I knew. You treated me as if I was one of your family and was always there to help me out whenever I called. Nothing was ever too much trouble and I used to love listening to your stories when we spent time together It was a privilege to know you and an honour to have you in my life for as long as I did. Mum, Dad and I will always cherish the memories of you. Rest in peace 💛 xxx

    Jo
  33. A kind and generous man. You will be in our hearts always and your light will continue to shine. We will miss you. From Jonny, Michelle, Yvonne and Pat x

    The Chalk/Goodenough-Egan Family