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John William Bentham

1944 - 2025

Messages of condolence

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  1. Play guitar B

    Keith and Pauline lockett
  2. Much loved brother in law & uncle. Rest in peace John. From Andy, Carole, Jess & Jo. Xxxx

    Carole Wickham
  3. Fellow musician since 1960’s when John joined the Sassenachs & later when he invited me to front his band “Fine Mixture” John was an inspiration to me & we had a lot of fun, followed in later years with two other bands, always enthusiastic, John will be sadly missed.

    Reg Bodman
  4. Fellow musician since 1960’s when John joined the Sassenachs & later when he invited me to front his band “Fine Mixture” John was an inspiration to me & we had a lot of fun, followed in later years with two other bands, always enthusiastic, John will be sadly missed.

    Reg Bodman
  5. To My Big Cuz

    I will miss you loads, you were a been huge part of my life when I was little , Love you forever

    Sleep well

    Little Cuz , Sarah Geoff and Family

    Sarah Davis Little Cuz
  6. To Cousin Johnnie

    Good bye and god bless you , keep on playing and making Music where ever you are,

    always in our thoughts

    Jane David and Family xxx

    Jane Murrell
  7. Rest peacefully John condolences to all the family and thank you for the memories sadly missed xx

    Terry Fensome
  8. Such a true gentleman , heaven has gained another angel. Nanny Bet and Farvie will be waiting to welcome you with open arms. God bless, David and Judi xxx

    David and Judi
  9. God saw that you were weary, so he did what he thought best. He put his arms around you and whispered come and rest.
    RIP John love always Robert and Betty
    Keep playing your music 🎵

    John William Bentham
  10. You were just a nice person and I’m glad that I knew you. Rock on mate. Bob & Marg Gregory.

    Bob & Marg Gregory
  11. I crossed paths with you many years ago in the print industry and you were always a fountain of knowledge on many subjects. Advising and entertaining especially in the guitar world. Hope you are at peace and playing a guitar wherever you are John.

    John and Gill Welch
  12. It won’t just be your fabulous guitar playing that will be missed but being in a band with you has been such fun.

    Bruce & Cathy Evans.
  13. Sorely missed, will always remember our fishing trips when we were young, we have always been a close family over the years.

    God Bless you

    Cousin Joe Allbury

    Joe Allbury
  14. Remembering John – a lovely man

    Karen and family xxx
  15. Dear Heather,
    We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved John. Although this is such a difficult time, I hope today is a chance to share in many happy memories with those who knew and loved him for his many strengths and talents. We are grateful for the love of drumming that he sparked in Oscar, (though not always when he was practising!)
    To Hayley, Julie and Rob, our heartfelt condolences too.
    With much love
    Fil & Jeff (and Oscar, Will and Bea)
    xxx

    The Wood family
  16. RIP John.. a much loved man and have always made us feel part of the family. Been so lucky to be included in many family events and hopefully avoided being caught by John on his camcorder!! The music will play on but you’ll be missing. Much love xxx

    Mark and Bob Smith-Thomas
  17. To Cousin Johnnie,

    Although we lost touch and followed different paths I still have wonderful memories of us when we were kids, which will stay with me for all time.
    God bless Johnnie and keep playing your music.

    CLIVE BENTHAM
  18. John you were a wonderful Man ,Husband, Father, i remember well we had a couple of good holidays with you Heather myself and Frank
    also i had a lovely time when i visited you
    You taught Frankie to play guitar and he in turn he taught Harrison so the music goes on RIP John xxxx

    Rita caruana

Service Details

Tuesday, April 15th 2025 - 11:00
FUNERAL LOCATION
Poole Crematorium, Gravel Hill, Poole, Dorset, BH17 9BQ
BRANCH
James Smith Funeral Directors
Swanage

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