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Thomas John Paynter

1986 - 2023

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  1. I miss you lots Tom, and I’ll never forget you. Sleep easy brother ♥️

    Oliver de Hauteville Bell
  2. We are so sorry and send our deepest condolences to you all at this horrible time. xxx

    Annie Lovelass
  3. Night godbless Tom, it was an absolute privilege to know you. Thoughts and prayers love Fran

    fran Caton
  4. Love you brother, thanks for everything ❤️

    William de Hauteville bell
  5. Tom you were a lovely sweet man, you were the best dad & a good friend, you’ll be missed so much! xx

    Vickie Gordon
  6. Love you big brother, rest easy ❤️
    YNWA

    Benjamin Paynter
  7. Thank you for welcoming me into your family. I’ll always be grateful I knew you. It’s heartbreaking to lose such an incredibly kind, thoughtful and selfless person. You’ll be missed forever by so many xxx

    Chelsea Collins
  8. You will be forever missed and you will be forever in our hearts ❤️

    Jen Howard
  9. Thanks for being a brilliant brother.I’ll never forget you.❤️

    Henry de Hauteville Bell
  10. To my darling Tom Tom , I loved you from the second you entered my life. I will miss you everyday till we meet again. My life will never ever be the same but I will love you forever and I know you’ll never be far away xx

    Belinda de Hauteville Bell
  11. The most gentle soul✨ it was a privilege to know you and watch you be the most amazing father, brother & son. You will forever be missed and always in our hearts ❤️

    Libby Jenner
  12. I don’t really know how to say goodbye to you Tom, there are so many things I’ll miss about you and my world will never be the same without you here.
    You were such a fantastic father, brother, friend and son, always willing to help and always with a smile.
    Thank you for everything.
    Sleep well son x

    Christopher de Hauteville Bell
  13. Tom you leave a big hole in the Harry’s family and the biscuit barrel empty….. your sweet soul will be so missed 💔

    Harry’s Cafe Bar
  14. One of the sweetest people I have had the pleasure to know. Will miss you so much. Sleep well my friend x

    Cheryl Weeks
  15. A kind & gentle soul. Rest in peace dear Tom. ❤️ xx

    Paul & Julie Willingham
  16. We’ll always have Power, sweet dreams Tom

    Jude Marquet
  17. Tom no longer in pain, sad day for all your family and friends but we are here to help Jackson, Emily and Thomas Jr your much loved children and Izzy that you welcomed into your life and helped bring up with Kayleigh, through the dark times ahead.
    You were always quiet and unassuming and will be missed by more people than than you may have thought.
    Sleep tight. Till we meet again.
    Tracey & Steve Gordon x

    Tracey
  18. Tom no longer in pain, sad day for all your family and friends but we are here to help Jackson, Emily and Thomas Jr your much loved children and Izzy that you welcomed into your life and helped bring up with Kayleigh, through the dark times ahead.
    You were always quiet and unassuming and will be missed by more people than than you may have thought.
    Sleep tight. Till we meet again.
    Tracey & Steve Gordon x

    Tracey & Steve Gordon
  19. Belinda, Chris & Boys, Emily & Tom jr,

    What a beautiful service today, celebrating Toms life.

    I’m sure he was looking over you all, and so proud of you all.

    You made so many memories with him, even though he was taken far too soon, but I’m sure he is cooking up there, and using the 5 spice…..

    Love to you….

    Marie, Steve & Riley

    Marie Spoor
  20. Dad ypu was always our hero down here, now your our hero up there, your the brightest star in the sky every night, we know your always by our side where ever we go

    Love you forever dad
    Emily and thomas

    Sleep tight Tom, your missed so much, your kids did you proud yesterday

    Kayleigh and izzy xx

    Kayleigh
  21. I’m going to miss you Dad❤️ I will always remember the memories and moments we shared together and I will do everything I can to always make you proud , I Love You so much Dad❤️

    Jackson Paynter
  22. 💕💕💕

    Lynn C

Service Details

Thursday, May 18th 2023 - 11:00
FUNERAL LOCATION
Bournemouth Crematorium, Bournemouth Crematorium, Strouden Avenue, Bournemouth, Dorset, BH8 9HX
BRANCH
Albert Marsh Funeral Directors
Wareham

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