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Trevor Lay

1941 - 2023

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  1. Dear Dad
    I will miss you so much
    May you be happily reunited with all those you love in heaven.

    Your loving Daughter

    Corinne lay
  2. Missing you Trev.

  3. We knew and loved you for 52 years. God Bless. Tony, Loraine and family xx

    Tony and Loraine
  4. We are so saddened at the loss of Uncle Trevor. Thank you Trevor for the love and the care that you always showed to all of the family. Thank you for the happy memories and for all of the laughter. XX

    Andrew & Teresa Prior & Family.
  5. Sorry to hear Trevor has passed. We were very fond of Trevor. You certainly knew where you stood with him. Our thoughts are with the family at this very sad time. God Bless x x

    Val and Bill Woods
  6. You were loved and respected by so many. I for one will miss you very much. Good night and god bless you Trev.

  7. Trevor was always such good company, with a great sense of humour. Iwerne was a holiday home to us and with his usual sharp wit he referred to us as ‘the travellers’.
    God bless you Trevor.

    June and Richard
  8. We have lost one of the good guys, miss you Bruv x

    Steve Lay
  9. To Trevor’s family: I’m so sorry for your loss. Trevor was a good friend and I’ll really miss him. I remember we used to call him Mr Grumpy when my kids were small and we used to impose ourselves on him and Jill for a week but he was always very generous and kind. After Jill passed away we used to meet for lunch and he always liked to reminisce about Jill which I think gave him some comfort. RIP Trevor x

    Pat Jakubowski
  10. Trevor, you will be sadly missed, I had the greatest respect for you as did many others. We will all miss you on our little “get togethers” but those meetings will carry on in your name.
    Rest in Peace

    Lesley Smith
  11. Dearest Trevor,

    I miss the moment we shared as friends. You mean a lot to me, Julie and the kids. You will always remember by all of us as someone very special. Rest in perfect peace, Trevor.

    Kenny, Julie, Sureen and Alethea Tang

    Kenny Tang
  12. We have lost a warm, kind and generous man who has led a full and interesting life. I always enjoyed his stories of his world trips and his one liners still make me chuckle.
    Rest in peace Trevor

  13. A very special man, my very special brother. Kind, caring, your generosity knew no bounds. I know I drove you mad and in return you made me laugh. I miss you so much Bruv.
    Always remembered. Goodnight, God Bless.
    All my Love Fred xxx

  14. Dearest Trevor

    We will always miss you and your wonderful sense of humour. We were lucky to have you as an uncle, great uncle and great great uncle. Now reunited with Jill. God bless and rest in peace forever.
    All our love
    Linda and Stephen Pidwell and Family xxxx

    Linda Pidwell
  15. Dear Trevor

    We miss you very much, thank you for being a lovely friend and neighbour.
    Rest in peace.
    Love Wendy & John

    John and Wendy Everest
  16. Will always be in our Hearts, have such lovely and funny memories and of course that wicked sense of humour. A kind and loving uncle who will be missed.
    God bless X

    Lesley, Brian and family
  17. Trevor, you always treated me like family and your generosity ,spirit and kind heart will be sorely missed.
    Dan x

  18. Rest in peace “main man”

    Wendy, David & family xx

    Wendy & David
  19. Dear Trevor,
    I miss your friendship and the shared laughter.
    Thank you for all your kindness to Tamsin, Sara-Kate and myself. You’ve left a gaping hole…you were a gent apart…
    Linda, Tamsin and Sara-Kate xxx

    Linda Sawdon
  20. Corinne & Greg
    Such a lovely send off that you gave your Dad yesterday, he would have been very proud of you both and will be sadly missed.
    Lots of love
    Rachel & David xxx

    Rachel & David Green

Service Details

Monday, June 5th 2023 - 14:00
Poole Crematorium, Gravel Hill, Poole, Dorset, BH17 9BQ
Lesley Shand Funeral Service

Family flowers only. Donations if desired.

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